Why you cannot accept yourself as women? (And how to create acceptance)
Most of the clients we deal at cheetu.com want to become feminized and accept themselves as women and this has been the trouble for them and within this article we will take a deep look into the problem
Why you are not able to accept yourself as women?
As you know the matter is bit complex here, it is complex because of the social conditioning and condemnation. Social conditioning and condemnation doesn’t exist for you it exists for everyone. ,
Society condemns everyone
Regardless of whosoever the person is society condemns everyone. Nobody has ever allowed you, to be what you are.
Since the beginning you are not allowed to accept yourself who you are, you may have started feeling more feminine then masculine when you were very young.
And you may have experienced a very strong condemnation, you may have been forced to live like a male which was not your inner nature, which was against your inner nature and
You may have experienced the pressure from your family and friends, from your social surrounding.
And these thoughts of condemnation are ingrained in your subconscious mind and now when you are really free to be yourself or self depend to an extent where you can be yourself
But you fail to do so
Actually you are still being forced by the thoughts that have been sitting in your subconscious mind, sitting in your memories of your past forcing you to become feel and act like a male.
Even if you try very hard this male subconscious doesn’t allow you to live, feel and experience like a women.
And even today you suppose to face the condemnation
And this condemnation and this pressure has been forced upon you from all the directions and no one seems to accept you as you are or accept you as a women. And this thought has perpetrated so deeply because it is coming from all of the directions
Even you yourself do not accept yourself as women
Which you are actually independent for; you are free to do it.
You can be yourself really! And can live a comfortable relaxed life but due to the conditionings, now you’re not natural to yourself.
How to start accepting yourself as women?
There are two ways you can do that.
This first way is by becoming aware of the conditionings
Whenever you are in conflict the first thing you need to do is do not try to fight with the conflicts.
I would suggest you to go for a walk, with the conflict in the mind and allow the conflict to flow in its flow and try to look in to that depth of the conflict. Try to seek the root of the conflict in to your mind.
The root may be hidden in to your past.
The memories hanging their, the memories of a situation where you’re forced to do something that you don’t like, And you cannot revolt you have to suppress yourself. These suppressed feelings still exist into your subconscious mind
Even after years they are there blocking your feelings and emotions. These blocks are there; stopping you from being natural and loose.
So go for a walk or whenever you feel good to have some exercise which will be actually good for your health as well. And allow the thoughts to flow in the direction, be loose with them don’t try to fight and be aware of what is coming to your mind.
Slowly and slowly within few attempts you will be able to penetrate your subconscious mind and you will get deep insights and you will be able to see what has caused that specific conflict in your mind.
And as soon as you have discovered that specific conflict the root of that specific conflict you have resolved it.
The second way to do it is by hypnotherapy.
Hypnotherapy sessions are very effective and if you allow them to work they will help you. They are just like maps in your mind.
Enter into the sessions with the conflict in the mind. You can penetrate to the deepest level of your subconscious mind (where these conflicts exist).
Your subconscious mind the very core of your being
And you can just wipe out most of the barriers, fears, anxieties, conflicts, male thoughts in just a matter of few days.
Picking one by one may take a longer time (by awareness method) but using by the hypnotherapy methods, you can remove hundreds of barriers each session
And with each progressive session you can remove most faint thoughts most delicate behaviors and condemnations which have been engraved you in your sub conscious mind since you are a child.
So here is the summary of what you have learned today…
We started with how society condemns everybody without any discount.
And you were not accepted with your feminity, and then about the pressure to live like a male still exist into your subconscious. Due to this pressure; now you’re not capable to accept yourself as women.
And we accounted two methods that you can use to start accepting yourself, first by awareness and second by hypnotherapy.
I highly recommend both of them, hypnotherapy is much easier and you’re not alone their trying to remove the blocks.
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